Hi Team Stony Tennis
Tennis can be THE most frustrating sport ever! As a junior, there were many times where my blood would boil with rage on days where I felt I just couldn’t hit a ball or find a way to break down my opponent.
I see these same emotions and reactions in players at the club on a regular basis, which I am glad to say are completely natural. The conversations I have with parents can be quite awkward as they sometimes think that tennis isn’t helping their child if they are feeling bad BUT it is completely the opposite.
By using tennis, people can learn to manage their emotions. By tackling this now will mean the player can utilise the skills for future success whether in tennis or life…so it is really good that sometimes they are feeling bad!
We all know that tennis is as much a mental game as it is a physical one. Whether you’re serving at match point or battling through a tough rally, the pressure can sometimes feel overwhelming, right? So, let’s dive into why our minds can struggle under pressure and explore some powerful mental strategies to help keep your cool and elevate your game.
Why We Struggle Mentally
Ever notice how the simplest shots feel impossible when the pressure's on? That’s because stress can impact our ability to think clearly and make decisions. Here are a few reasons why we get mentally jammed up on the court:
1. Fear of Failure: You’re playing well, but then the fear of losing starts creeping in, making you second-guess every shot.
2. Overthinking: Tennis requires quick, instinctive decisions, but under pressure, we tend to overanalyse, slowing down our reactions.
3. Emotional Rollercoaster: Miss a few key points, and emotions like frustration, anger, or even panic take over, clouding your judgment.
Sound familiar? The good news is there are mental strategies to handle these challenges, so you can stay sharp under pressure.
Strategies to Stay Mentally Strong
1. Focus on the Process, Not the Outcome:
Instead of worrying about the final score, concentrate on your next shot. Take it one point at a time, focusing on your movement, the ball, or breathing. This shift in focus can relieve the mental pressure.
2. Breathe and Reset:
When tension builds, your breathing often becomes shallow. Between points, take a moment to breathe deeply—inhale through your nose, hold it for a second, and exhale slowly. This simple reset calms your nerves and helps you think more clearly.
3. Visualization:
Before stepping onto the court, spend a few minutes visualizing yourself playing with confidence. Imagine handling high-pressure points effortlessly. This mental rehearsal prepares your mind for the real thing. High energy music can also help with this.
4. Positive Self-Talk:
Instead of thinking, “I can’t mess this up,” tell yourself, “I’ve got this!” Replace negative thoughts with positive affirmations to boost your confidence and keep emotions in check.
5. Routine is Your Best Friend:
Develop a pre-serve, pre-return or between-point routine. Whether it’s bouncing the ball three times or taking a couple of deep breaths, routines give you something familiar to rely on when the pressure mounts.
6. Embrace the Pressure:
Pressure is a privilege—it means you're in a competitive, exciting moment. Shift your mindset to view pressure as an opportunity to shine, rather than something to fear.
Final Thought: Practice Mental Toughness
Just like you practice your serve or backhand, mental strength requires consistent training. So, next time you’re on the court, don’t shy away from the pressure. Try out these mental strategies and see what works for you. Mastering the mental game is key to reaching your full potential as a player.
I hope this helps inspire some mental strength in your tennis and it won’t happen overnight but over time, you should see the benefits. Let me know if there are any other things you do to help stay mentally strong or if you need any further help.
Happy tennising!
John Cavill
Director of Tennis
Tennis can be THE most frustrating sport ever! As a junior, there were many times where my blood would boil with rage on days where I felt I just couldn’t hit a ball or find a way to break down my opponent.
I see these same emotions and reactions in players at the club on a regular basis, which I am glad to say are completely natural. The conversations I have with parents can be quite awkward as they sometimes think that tennis isn’t helping their child if they are feeling bad BUT it is completely the opposite.
By using tennis, people can learn to manage their emotions. By tackling this now will mean the player can utilise the skills for future success whether in tennis or life…so it is really good that sometimes they are feeling bad!
We all know that tennis is as much a mental game as it is a physical one. Whether you’re serving at match point or battling through a tough rally, the pressure can sometimes feel overwhelming, right? So, let’s dive into why our minds can struggle under pressure and explore some powerful mental strategies to help keep your cool and elevate your game.
Why We Struggle Mentally
Ever notice how the simplest shots feel impossible when the pressure's on? That’s because stress can impact our ability to think clearly and make decisions. Here are a few reasons why we get mentally jammed up on the court:
1. Fear of Failure: You’re playing well, but then the fear of losing starts creeping in, making you second-guess every shot.
2. Overthinking: Tennis requires quick, instinctive decisions, but under pressure, we tend to overanalyse, slowing down our reactions.
3. Emotional Rollercoaster: Miss a few key points, and emotions like frustration, anger, or even panic take over, clouding your judgment.
Sound familiar? The good news is there are mental strategies to handle these challenges, so you can stay sharp under pressure.
Strategies to Stay Mentally Strong
1. Focus on the Process, Not the Outcome:
Instead of worrying about the final score, concentrate on your next shot. Take it one point at a time, focusing on your movement, the ball, or breathing. This shift in focus can relieve the mental pressure.
2. Breathe and Reset:
When tension builds, your breathing often becomes shallow. Between points, take a moment to breathe deeply—inhale through your nose, hold it for a second, and exhale slowly. This simple reset calms your nerves and helps you think more clearly.
3. Visualization:
Before stepping onto the court, spend a few minutes visualizing yourself playing with confidence. Imagine handling high-pressure points effortlessly. This mental rehearsal prepares your mind for the real thing. High energy music can also help with this.
4. Positive Self-Talk:
Instead of thinking, “I can’t mess this up,” tell yourself, “I’ve got this!” Replace negative thoughts with positive affirmations to boost your confidence and keep emotions in check.
5. Routine is Your Best Friend:
Develop a pre-serve, pre-return or between-point routine. Whether it’s bouncing the ball three times or taking a couple of deep breaths, routines give you something familiar to rely on when the pressure mounts.
6. Embrace the Pressure:
Pressure is a privilege—it means you're in a competitive, exciting moment. Shift your mindset to view pressure as an opportunity to shine, rather than something to fear.
Final Thought: Practice Mental Toughness
Just like you practice your serve or backhand, mental strength requires consistent training. So, next time you’re on the court, don’t shy away from the pressure. Try out these mental strategies and see what works for you. Mastering the mental game is key to reaching your full potential as a player.
I hope this helps inspire some mental strength in your tennis and it won’t happen overnight but over time, you should see the benefits. Let me know if there are any other things you do to help stay mentally strong or if you need any further help.
Happy tennising!
John Cavill
Director of Tennis